The fruit of the spirit that stands out the most to me is Patience.
I lack Patience at every level .. with people, with my 9 month old son, waiting for the things to go on sale before I buy them, all the daily 'stuff' and with the things of God, when I have a vision, when God's calling me to do something , when I pray for something... I want it NOW and I get anxious ... Sometimes I find myself doing things with my own strength, I want to make things happen... God has shown me the beauty of waiting on Him, for confirmation for answers for His timing... but it's still one of the biggest challenges in my life...

Fabiola